Quote Originally Posted by OngBonga View Post
Asshole is a non-binary term. Just because you think someone is an asshole, doesn't mean everyone has to consider that person an asshole. Likewise, someone you think isn't an asshole, I might have a different opinion of.

The idea that someone is or isn't an asshole is dumb. We're all assholes, and none of us are assholes. Depends who you're asking.
Great. But that really has nothing to do with the issue at hand.

Try replacing the word asshole with 'someone behaving in an offensive way', if you prefer.