No bodog sucks.
AP and UB offer lots of reloads and Rb but are fairly tight.
Dise still seemed pretty lose and its small 1-5 table SNG's under MTT 'quickies' looked like a goldmine.
FTP and stars have taken up a lot of traffic from party, but while FTP has bonuses and rb its still pretty tight.
For a good reload i think you ought to look at the crypto network, but it requires you to play 1/2 limit holdem to clear the bonuses which may or may not be +ev.
Prima have a bunch of bonuses for doing the same thing.

I think you really need to be specific on what you want to play, then pick accordingly. Bonuses still exist to be cleared, good rb deals are available and 1 or 2 sites still have good games.