Understood. And I'm still going to go with my original explanation, assuming a real-world environment where I don't know what my opps cards are. OOP I'm going to have to bet into him on the river if the scare card drops. If I've jacked the pot unnecessarily on the turn, I now am in the uncomfortable position of having to bet much more to see whether he has the flush when the card hits on the river, and if he raises me (even as a bluff), make the decision of walking away from significantly more BBs or calling him down... which would likely put me almost all in with a quick count in my head...

If he misses, and he only called my turn bet, I'll prolly bet the R for around 1/2 the pot. Maybe push if the R gives me two pair or trips. But this puts me back in my weak spot... how aggressive do I want to be (again assuming not having seen this guys cards) with ONLY TPTK. For all I know, he could have missed the flush but be calling me down with better than one pair.