thats obviously going to happen, if the best hand always won then there would be no game. your job is to consistently have a better hand, so you will consistently win more than you lose. if you play out JJ vs 83o a billion times JJ is obviously going to win a hell of a lot more than 83o...so why would you play 83o? just because it won a few times? you need to learn how to take advantage of people who play this crap, and you need to learn to know when you are beat and make proper laydowns.

anyways to better clarify why you shouldnt be playing hands like K9o...in a raised pot, even usually in a limped pot, there will almost always be someone else in the hand with you outkicked. whats the point in playing k9o when someone else has kq? the reason 56s is better than k9 is because 56 (aside from the straight and flush possibilities) are almost always live cards, meaning no one else at the table is playing them. playing broadway-rag hands only leads to getting top pair-decent kicker hands, which is where the majority of players lose their money.

also when you look at poker tracker, you shouldnt be saying "oh i lost with AA to 27o blah blah" you should be looking at how you played the hand, and what you could have done to prevent this (if anything). you should definitely start posting hand histories in the other forum, everyone is more than happy to help.