Doan... connectors have no value 25bb deep. And there shouldn't be much happening after the turn. The right strategy is a not a very fun one. You bet your strong hands big preflop, and overbet shove most flops.
Also mixing up your game is obviously bad against über-donks. - Did not read any further.

Also: it's a freakin home game. Drink beer, have fun. You can beat it even if you just donk around, so... just do whatever. It's not like you're playing cent games for profit.
If you sit down at a home game and do the Chris Furgeson, you're not making any friends.