"the point of the examples explains my point, your not getting called on the flop by a worse hand. a huge reraise like that preflop tells me you probably got the goods, and will only call your all in flop bet when i set... you push back at me all in preflop, i'll fold my Jacks."

If i just push, I'm winning 5xBB every time, for say 500xBB after 100 trials. If i reraise you to 15xBB, then ~88% of the time you miss your set and I bet and you fold, I'm getting 10 extra BB out of you every time. So, 88% of 100 times i'm winning at a minimum 1320xBB, assuming they call no more bets. I will destack you 4% of the time if i get a set over set, clearly win more money if the board comes all unders (~30% of the time), and only win money from you making bad calls on draws, misreading me for ak or whatever, etc. This number that i'm winning is easily going to be 1500-2000BB+. Even if you destacked me that entire 12% of the time that your set hits, which its likely you wouldn't at least some of the time, i'm still up more than you.