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I think you played the hand well until the river. I have only very minor quibles before that. I like rasing a little more than you did PF. I like 4 BB plus one BB for each limper, with three limpers that you puts you at 7bb or 0.35. I like taking down the pot PF as I win the pot with no rake.

On the flop, I'm pretty confident I have the best hand and like to bet about half the pot, more if there is a strong draw. Here we see a flush draw so 2/3 the pot seems about right. I like your flop bet.

The turn card creates three types of hands that are now a problem. Small pocker pairs that are now sets, A-rag two pair, and pair/straight/straight draw hands. On the turn we have signifcant dilemna in not wanting to give free cards, wanting to money against hand like AQ, AJ etc but also not wanting to lose our stack if we are beat. I like betting about 1/3 pot. This makes it easy for hand like AT to call us. Your turn bet was more than that but not an unreasonable bet.

The river card looks like a brick and thus the analysis on the turn applies. The good news is that the flush did not come in. I like either a) making a smallish 1/3p type bet or checking hoping to induce a smallish bluff.

I think your river bet is way too big. All you have is a pair. You are pot committed, probably beat and likely to double him up.

In sum, I think you bet too little early and too much late.